I had sex with my boyfriend on 7-30. We broke up a week later. I slept with someone else on 8-7. (the guy supposedly had a vasectomy, or so he said, and he pulled out also- I told him to use a rubber, he pretended to, i found it in the trash can unrolled, and unused later!) My last LMP was on 7-20. I just think it is so unlikely that i could have gotten pregnant by either one of them! my ex i had been having sex with for 2 1/2 years and never got pregnant! I had sex twice in a whole month! most likely i ovulated on the 2nd of august, which points to my ex that i broke up with on the fifth. I probably was already pregnant when i slept with the other guy but there is still like a one in a million chance that it is the other guys! even though he said he was "fixed". people lie to get in your pants!
my ex boyfriend and i have since gotten back together, and i have vowed that i absolutely can not tell him about the other guy. He will NEVER forgive me! i will never tell him.
i want to get an abortion, because i am not 100% sure that he is the father, but i can not tell him that! today is the last day i have to get an abortion, i have an appointment today and can not figure out what to do!! what if the baby is NOT his? he is so happy that i am pregnant but i can not stop wondering if for sure it is his, so i just want to get rid of the evidence, if there is any to make sure that he will never know i slept with someone else! Am i just worrying too much?
the other reason i want to get an abortion is because i smoke cigs and can not quit smoking. i was smoking two packs a day and have cut down to 5 cigs a day, and am trying to quit, but my boyfriend yells and screams at me everyday about it, even though he smokes himself and can't quit! so not only do i not know that the baby is his for sure, but he also yells and screams at me everyday about smoking but trying to quit. so i cry and cry and cant sleep at night wondering if the kid is his, i quit drinking. i used to drink everyday almost, a lot. he still drinks. we both used to do drugs, i quit doing drugs 2 years ago. i am depressed and don't know what to do.
he is very upset that i want to get an abortion but every time he yells at me for smoking it makes me want to abort it even more. i get so upset. they told me when i went to the doc, to quit as soon as i could and that when i am upset, and stressed, the baby is too!>
(i went to the other guy ii slept with, he said there is no way that it is his- i just know that there is a possibility- even though i know it is small!)
And I don't know if i can deal with him screaming at me about everyththing i do! if he had to quit smokinng and drinking he wouldnt! and couldnt eitherr. I am trying at least to quit smoking – i am not smoking 2 ppacks a day anymmore. and honestly when ii try to quit smoking cold turkey i go into breserk mode.
Suggestion:
I think your boyfriend is the father.
I have never heard of a man claiming to have a vasectomy if he did not. Usually it is the other way around.
Any man claiming to have had a vasectomy when he did not is a complete idiot.
Good luck
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