me and 3 of my friends were really close throughout high school we left high school 4 years ago and have still managed to remain really good friends, however one of the girls has just stopped bothering with us since may 2010. I think its because she doesn't like the fact that we smoke and are friends with a girl she doesn't get on with even though this girl has never actually done anything to her, i also think that she thinks she is better than us because she drives and has her own car and stuff when 2 of us don't as we can't work at the moment due to illness. also my grandmother died earlier this year followed by her grandad a week later and instead of grieving for my gran i was comforting her through her hard time yet she never even asked how i was, instead she would just talk about her own problems. people tell me to just forget about her but its hard because we were really good friends and i understand everyone has faults nobody is perfect but i don't know whether or not to just leave it?
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It seems you've been friends a long time. I would have a talk with her, be honest with her and tell her just what you are feeling. See what she says. Sometimes you have to use your head and not your heart when deciding to keep a friendship. You have to weigh the good with the bad. To much bad you let the friend go.I wish you lots of luck.
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