I don't have many friends and this girl that I hang out with more often then the others has very recently started smoking cigarettes daily. We're only 15 so I don't know if this is the kind of friend I want to have around. She has the attitude like she doesn't care what you think, and she'll smoke wherever she wants. She even wanted to smoke outside of my house once when my parents were here, and there's no way I'm putting up with that. She's also turning into a very rude person – she came over one day, was here for maybe 30 minutes until some guy called her and told her he wanted to hang out. So she ditched me right there just because someone had called and offered her better plans. I don't know if it's worth keeping her around or if I should just get rid of her. Help?
Suggestion:
if shes being rude and disrespectful to you, then she surely isn't treating you the way a good friend should. if you dont want to loose this friend, talk to her sincerely and tell her what you not like about her recent attitude. try not to pick on the smoking though. im guessing shes just trying to be all bad@ss and stuff, if she continues to act this way ignoring your point of view than that shows she isn't treasuring you as a friend, then neither should you.
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