Everytime we go on an hour or longer trip, he has to stop for a smoke. He goes without food and stuff he needs to buy smokes and I have to help him out so he doesn't starve. He bums cigarettes off other smokers and constantly asks for money to buy smokes. He smokes constantly and when without smoking he gets aggressive (not to me) and shakes uncontrollably. It annoys me as I am into a healthy lifestyle and there is no way this is healthy. Smoking I don't mind so much but this is beyond a joke.
Suggestion:
If you live a different lifestyle, why are you dating him? Are there other things that you like about him that keep you in the relationship? If he has other wonderful qualities and the smoking and his behavior when not smoking are the only things that bother you, maybe you should give him a chance. Only you know what you can deal with in this relationship. I dated a smoker and I didn't like him smoking. He had other good qualities, so I stuck it out. He did have smoker's breath which bothered me a little. I don't think he was a chain smoker or anything because he seemed to be okay when not smoking. I think he was more of a casual smoker. Again, it's just what you can deal with. Hope this helps.
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