So obviously cigar smoking is not good for you, and I am pretty familiar with the risks and health problems it can cause when done too often. However, will smoking 2 or 3 a month really cause any damage or is it in enough moderation that I don't really have to worry?
Answer:
You are correct in thinking moderation is the key. Smoking 2 to 3 a month properly, ie, not inhaling. You will be fine.

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As with most things if done in moderation you will most likely experience no problems, im guessing when you say 2 or 3 a month you mean at social events and stuff, so you should be fine and I wouldnt worry about it too much.
If you're young and health (no heart condition, asthma, tobacco allergy, etc.) I wouldn't worry about it, the risk is small.