Its been 2 months; We got into a fight on my birthday, and I broke up with her. I asked her to delete me as a contact. She told me that if I tried to contact her, she would go to the police. I found out from her brother she had a bonfire with everything I gave her the next day. I've kept busy, dating new people, travelling quite a bit, exploring opening a French bistro. I am in Las Vegas right now, while relaxing in a spa, all I could think about was her. i don't want to get back with her, we weren't right for each other, there's less stress, in fact, we've both stopped smoking. She models and is probably the most beautiful women I ever dated, I also don't think I've ever loved someone as much before. Finally, I couldn't deal being in Las Vegas alone, I took a blackjack dealer I met for a night out.
Is it always going to be like this? Will she always be in the back of my mind even if I am with others? We were always fighting, I don't think either one of us thought marriage would work, so why is she still on my mind?
Suggestion:
I'm sure you'll think of her every now and then, but someone will come along that blows you away and you may think back on her and then realize what a great woman and relationship you have in front of you when you find that other person.
When we communicate with others it does a lot to our self-concept…shapes us into the people that we become. We consistently change because of our past experiences. You'll remember the impact that she had on you and how it will shape your relationships in the future, so don't think of it as such a bad thing.
Just remember..she was something of significance to you and so was the relationship…but you can never go back to having the same relationship with her that you did before. The memory will last, but let that just be a learning tool for your future.
I hope I have helped!
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