I'm 18, he's 22
I love my boyfriend, but the stress of the relationship is really starting to get to me. Its a long distance relationship and we see each other usually once a week on the weekend.
Recently its been getting really hard and frustrating because I am am going to school, seeing a tutor and going to work. So all of my time has been going to that.
I only have 1 day a week that I can go out because I'm so busy and that day has been going to my boyfriend. I get really frustrated because he works full time at a good job and always says he doesn't have enough money to go out. I haven't been able to see my friends who I miss and I can't blow off any steam because all he wants to do is have hang out (I want to go dancing or go out somewhere and DO SOMETHING).
Another thing that is pissing me off is that my boyfriend smokes pot all the time, and he is such a jerk (not on purpose) when he does.
We can't talk everyday anymore because he works roughly around 7am-6pm then goes to bed around 10pm. I go to school then work from 4pm-10pm. So our schedules are just not working together. But when we do get to talk he's almost always high and I can tell because he takes forever to reply to my texts (we can't talk over the phone because of long distance charges) and they are always one word answers like it's a nuisance that he has to talk to me.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to be a clingy or nagging girlfriend so I don't know how to approach him about these problems. I also don't want to tell him to NOT come down on the weekends because I need me time to spend with my friends. Grr I love him soo much but I'm getting super stressed and want to just break up with him.
What should I do?
What are your opinions?
Suggestion:
well first you should talk to him and see if he feels the same way, long distance relationships are hard , but try to honest with him and tell him how you feel and then if its meant to be things will work out, good luck and try not to be too stressed!
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