I've been friends with this girl for a long time, and I love her like my own sister. We're the same age, and we're going into high school this year, although she's already had sex (with a 16 year old) several times, and with another person (boy from our grade). Although now, she's getting to smoking weed and pot. I'm so scared for her, because I'm always here for her, and yet she never turns to me to tell me what's gone wrong, but instead turns to the boy who turned her on to drugs. Also, when I last saw her, she had those cigarette burn circles on both of her hands, and she told me she'd let Drew (the guy who turned her onto the drugs; not his real name) do them to her. Of course I got furious as to why she would allow him to do that to her, and we got into a little fight, but I later apologized and told her I was still there for here. Now, she's starting to hang out with a girl who's been held back for two years and she's still a freshman, and from what my older brother has told me about her, she's a 'whore' and she's got her navel, nose, and tongue pierced. My friend called me earlier today and told me himself, that my best friend had gotten her ear pierced with said 'whore' girl. So, I want to know, what can I possibly do to try and put a stop to her horrible behavior? I care about her so much, and I don;t want to lose her to drugs or let her fall into the clutches of someone who she shouldn't be hanging out with. Also, she never calls me, she's always out with her bad influencing friends, so I feel like she doesn't even like me even more.
Suggestion:
She probably doesn't like you because her behavior is out of control and you are acting as her conscience. This is because you care deeply about her welfare and plainly , she doesn't have the parental support that she needs. Send this letter to her parents and you will have done as much as you can do to save her from herself. Sadly, she may resent and even hate you for doing it but you will be able to live with yourself when the bad stuff that is coming occurs because you won't have to feel like you didn't speak up and say anything to help save her.
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Unfortunately there is very little you can do to control your friend's behavior. She is not going to stop doing these things hersel
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