How Can I Help Me Friend?

I love my friend more than anyone or anything in the world. He means so much to me. I caught him smoking a few months ago and gave him a lecture about how I used to be doing all that stuff and stopped and how my life is much better now. I've really tried but he keeps falling out with me because of it!!!! Anyway he promised he doesn't anymore but I just found out he was vying and smoking packets of them last week and he also smoked weed. I know for a fact he is only doing this to look cool cus he can go days withought doing it with me.

I really want to help him
(we are both 15 if this helps)

please anything? I don't want to loose him as a friend cus he means a lot more than any of my other friends to me.

Suggestion:

I know you're trying to help him, but by bugging him about it, you're starting to drive a wedge between you two =/ It's sucks I know, but you might just have to let him fall on his ***, realize for himself that smoking is not the thing to do and doesn't make him look cool. Sometimes that's the best thing to do.

You should also address him lying to you, a good friend wouldn't do that, they'd man up and admit it.

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