ok the beginning my sophomore year i meet this beautiful girl and we became close (lets call her april)
at first i was always just the friend she is pretty crazy (shes had a ton of boyfriends she drinks and smokes and has had sex already, just once though she told me that was a big mistake and shes never making that mistake again)
im the quite guy that does all his homework and follows the rules and i've never smoked or drank b4
for me but i just thought opposites attract right? originally i was turned off by all this but i just thought maybe i could help her, but i just got more infactuated with her
i would always tell her to stop smoking and i would be there for her
anyways one day when i got hurt running track she really freaked out and got really worried cuz i had to have surgery and i was surprised cuz she never showed me that she cared that much
she'd call me everyday and help me to class and all that
(this all happened at the end of the school year now btw)
then one day her friend tells me that april liked me and i was surprised, i asked april if it was true and she said nothing only that she just got out of a relationship, but she still called me everyday
then during summer she took a vacation to new york and then she would tell me things like she wants to be my first kiss and she loves me and all that, and i was shocked
but then for some reason we just didnt talk for like a month and she calls me and tells me at 2AM 3days before school that shes not coming back and then we never talk for awhile until around Christmas my junior year and she said im all she thinks about during her math class and she misses me so i asked her if she wanted to hang out (this would be the 1st time we've ever hung out outside of school) she said of coarse and to meet her at the mall the next day
then when i get there shes with 2 other friends and said she forgot i was coming and was already going to leave so i only saw her for 10min
she seemed sorry that she forgot but i just wondered to myself, how?
she made her friends drop me off at my house but they were dbags about driving me there
slowly we stopped talking again and now i haven't talked to her in probably 5 months and i really miss her but i looked her up on myspace (i dont have one i just typed her name in and found her) and she has a boyfriend who she has apparently been seeing since she took that vacation our sophomore year
now its my senior year this year and idk if i should call her or just forget about her
i think about her everyday, i dont even know what to say to her if i do call her
please help bring me some light on this situation?
if you read all this your awesome!
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i read it all! you know why? because your user name is sgt pepper 
okay. this girl sounds like trouble… but you have liked her so long! there are two options. you could TRY to move on. i know it is hard. maybe find another girl you like, and maybe date her. slowly, the pain from april will fade and it will be a distant memory.
OR
you could call her up, and take a chance. play a wild card. just be casual.. ask how she is doing, what she is up to, that she was just on your mind, that you just wanted to touch base again and check up on her. if all goes well, you could see if she would want to hang out. if that goes well.. well, surely you know all the things that could happen if that went well. it's possible you two will end up together.
BUT
rejection hurts. who wants rejection? my advice to you. if you care about her so much that you are willing to jeopardize heartbreak, go for it, dude. nobody can stop you! YOU are in control. but if you are iffy on the subject… i would hold off until you make up your mind and give it some more thought.
remember… anything can happen. you can't live your life with regrets. in ten years you may think,"hmm i wonder what ever happened to april? i should have rung her up that time a considered it." you just never know what could happen.
well, good sir, i hope i helped you out a bit. the best of luck, sgt pepper!
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