im 27 years of age and i have fallen madly in love with a girl, but the thing is we dont live in the same country, im from ireland and shes from italy but living in wales, i love her and want to be with her, and i have told her this, she says she loves me to but she will b travelling around after this, that its better that we accept that its not gonna wrk recently she has cheated on me, but has said she woz really drunk, in her defense i have cheated on her at the start of the relationship, 8months later we are in love and she does this?? i cant move there bcoz i have to stay here and finish my studys, and i will b here 4 another year more or less, do u think its time to give up the 1 i love???? it not that i want to, bcoz i do really love this girl……… i have made a lot of changes like giving up smoking and drinking less bcoz i wanted to show heri could change but now after i done all these things, it seem its not goin to wrk no matter how i want???
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Hey Anthony sounds like you care alot for her. First off i would say dont change anything about yourself for anyone else – do it coz you want to .. for you, that way you dont feel bad if you change and it doesnt work out. It also sounds like you both have a bit of living to do first so keep her in you back pocket and ask that you keep in contact and leave it like that for now. You never know when she is miles away and had a sh** time she may think of you and decide to come back to you coz it feels right, but it doesn't sound like it is right for her now. Good luck x

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