My Boyfriends older brother has been a dick to me since day 1 of our Relationship. First it was my age i'm 30 & he is 22. Then we got engaged after 2 months which was after a big car crash which we both escaped unhurt thankfully. We both realised we never want to be apart. We are together 3 years now and his brother always has something to say. I'm also 4 months pregnant with my first child. This is our 4th pregnancy (1 ectopic pregnancy & 2 Miscarriages). This guy is so childish he's even resorted to threatening me because my boyfriend took his GF off facebook as a friend apparantly thinking i made him do so. We have had confrontations which haven't been too nice so i have stopped visiting my future in-laws because of this, every time i visit he has a tantrum and starts to abuse me. It's got to the stage were i have had panic attacks and i am worried about how things are going to be when i have my baby. I know he's my BF brother but I hate this guy so much he's made my life a living hell and don't want him near my child. He threatens me then texts my boyfriend after & is all nice. I think it's a bit f****** up.This is a guy who smokes , drinks & never works. I have considered giving up my relationship because of this but why should i ruin my happiness i love my boyfriend so much. Somebody please give me advice i told my mother i don't want my child subjected to that kind of behaviour and have said to my boyfriend that his parent's can come see the child at our house. My job as a mother is to protect my child is it not?? I have considered going to a solicitor also to get a letter sent to him for slander
Suggestion:
Ok, you have put up with this abuse far too long. You have to protect yourself and your baby. Let your bf, his parents and his asshole brother know that if he comes at you or your baby in any way you are going to end him.
File for a restraining order at your local city prosecutor's office so you have paper documentation, then when he steps to you grab whatever is close at hand and lay his *** out. Don't worry about how your bf or his folks are going to take it because he should have been protecting you in the first place.
Trust me, they know he's a piece of crap but they have let him get away with it for whatever reason. Your bf may leave you but if he does it just proves that he's not the right man for you anyway.
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